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EMOTIONAL CALLOUSES GROW WITH LIVING LIFE?

October 8, 2024 by David Gillaspie

Emotional callouses are one way of navigating difficult times. The problems start after difficult times pass. Should you rip the callouses off like an old bandaid, or let it ride? Before you decides, review those hards times so you know the possibility of them returning.

Filed Under: What's Up Tagged With: building, callous, difference, difficult times, divorced, emotional, emotional callouses, emotions, failure, freedom, goals, kids, learn, life, living, living life, married, mistakes, priorities, rebuilding, roommate, success, time, vengeance, wife

DALLAS COWBOYS CHECK IN

October 7, 2024 by David Gillaspie

The Dallas Cowboys have had three quarterbacks that have one thing in common: They are Super Bowl caliber players, just not for the Cowboys. If the three had been traded to a contender, they would have been even better than they were in their time in Dallas. Their names?

Filed Under: What's Up Tagged With: 49ers, dak prescott, Dallas Cowboys, Danny White, football, joe montana, lombardi trophy, NFL, Patrick mahomes, Pittsburgh Steelers, quarterback, sports, Super Bowl, tom brady, Tony Romo

BLAMING SOMEONE ELSE WHEN IT’S YOUR FAULT: WEIGHT GAIN

October 2, 2024 by David Gillaspie

Blaming someone the right way takes special care. It takes practice. Conversely, accepting blame also takes practice. One is easier than the other. Take the top pic for example.

Filed Under: What's Up Tagged With: accepting blame, beer, blame, blaming, blaming someone, depressing, drastic weight loss, drink all day, drugs, food, getting fat, health, high confidence, high school wrestler, loser's game, practice, SPORT, weight gain, Weight Loss, weight loss drugs, your fault

FAMILY TIME SUNSET ON THE WESTERN EDGE

October 1, 2024 by David Gillaspie

Family time needs a motto, and this could be one: “It’s better to create something and be criticized that to create nothing and criticize others.” But what feeds the creative force?

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BIG TIME TAKES SMALL STEPS: THE GATE

September 29, 2024 by David Gillaspie

The big time is closer than you think, closer than I thought. It’s easy to miss if you don’t look closely. The wood in the picture is an example.

Filed Under: What's Up Tagged With: baby boomer, big time, building, building together, caregiver, caring, do it yourself, fence gate, gate building, homeowner, homeownership, project euphoria, small steps, time

TAKING TIME, MAKING TIME

September 28, 2024 by David Gillaspie

Taking time for the little things is something we’re supposed to do. Making time to get it right is always the challenge. In some worlds, maybe yours, time is elusive, slippery, until you get rewired one way or the other.

Filed Under: What's Up Tagged With: baby boomer, beauty, blogger, Dad, energy, focus, grandkids, Grandparents, keep time, kid events, Love, make time, MARRIAGE, married, memory, Mom, nature, smart readers, take time, time, timing, travel, wife, writer, writing

YOUNG DUDES WHO VOTE?

September 23, 2024 by David Gillaspie

Young dudes who talk about voting have a look. Some wear a suit and tie, an expression like they’re looking at the sun, and get their hair cut high and tight like the special force they feel a part of. You’ve seen them in pictures, on camera, looking fierce. Maybe they are fierce? Incel fierce?

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YOUNG MEN LEARNING TO VOTE

September 22, 2024 by David Gillaspie

Young men can do their own math on voting, but I’ll help: One man, one vote; one woman, one vote. You have one vote, bro, and it may not seem like much, but that’s what it is. One. Vote. Does it even matter enough to bother with? One vote may not seem like much, but […]

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ROCKY RELATIONSHIP WITH WRITING?

September 11, 2024 by David Gillaspie

My rocky relationship with writing took a turn yesterday. It happens, but this one was avoidable. Boomerpdx was offline for ten hours. The longest ten hours of my . . . not my life. I just did other writer things. What writer things?

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BIG DECISIONS ARE TOO HARD?

September 9, 2024 by David Gillaspie

Big decisions come every day, one fastball after another. In the game of life, you stand in and take your cuts. You might get on base, you might strike out. Or you might opt out of the whole thing? Wait a minute.

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