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IMPOSTER SYNDROME FOR THE TROPHY WIN

December 17, 2023 by David Gillaspie

Just when you find a new celebrity crush, whether movie star, sports star, or blogger, they come out with imposter syndrome. They are in complete control of their medium, whether film, field, or the page, at least that’s what you think. Then you learn they are normal people with normal anxieties. Who knew the rich […]

Filed Under: What's Up Tagged With: anxieties, blog, blogger, boomerpdx, celebrity crush, David Gillaspie, family, fox news, grand parents, Hemingway, history, imposter syndrome, incel, involuntary celibate, Love, Nike, normal people, parents, pep talk, trophy, wife, writer, writers, writing

HOLIDAY BUNDLE WRAPPED UP TOGETHER

December 14, 2023 by David Gillaspie

What’s the usual holiday bundle? Lights, tree, presents. Add some snow and you’re all done. But then a day like yesterday adds something extra, something unexpected. There I was, sitting in a car dealership while my ride was in the garage. You know the drill?

Filed Under: What's Up Tagged With: America, bad Christmas, best Christmas, blog, blogger, boomerpdx, broadway rose, Christmas, Christmas spirit, comfort zone, David Gillaspie, family, holiday bundle, Love, MARRIAGE, Mom, oregon Christmas, sad Christmas, self help, the New Yorker, Tigard, toyota, wife, writer, writers, writing

RECOVERY ROAD POT HOLES AND HUMPS

December 5, 2023 by David Gillaspie

Recovery road is paved with promise and hope. Most of all, it’s paved with compasses to stay on track. Whether recovery involves substance or emotions, staying on track is vital. How does that work?

Filed Under: What's Up Tagged With: blog, blogger, boomerpdx, cancer, cancer treatment, covid, David Gillaspie, emotional abuse, emotional recovery, husband, life path, national trauma, pathology, recovery, recovery people, recovery road, reward, substance abuse, substance recovery, trauma, wife, writer, writers, writing

HORSE, RIDER, YOU, ME, AND SECRETARIAT

November 27, 2023 by David Gillaspie

Horse rider? It sounds like a strange thing to call someone, but I’m not calling. Instead, I’m referring to what I like to say is the magical formula to every successful relationship. When you go to the stables and saddle up, no one is confused about who is who in the role playing department. You […]

Filed Under: What's Up Tagged With: boomerpdx, boss, brave horse, David Gillaspie, essential questions, good horse, higher power, horse, horse rider, horse whipped, husband, jackass, kids, lone searcher, married people, my plan, other plans, parents, relationships, rider, rider horse, secretariat, super horse, wife, writer, writers, writing

FAT SHAMER OVEREATS ON FAVORITE HOLIDAY, AGAIN

November 22, 2023 by David Gillaspie

A fat shamer in a family of big people is a problem. Especially if it’s coming from a fat man who doesn’t know they’re fat. Look around and you’ll see them. More likely you’ll hear them.

Filed Under: What's Up Tagged With: America, boomerpdx, David Gillaspie, Death, education, family, Fat, fat man, fat shamer, fat shaming, food, history, ice cream, Oregon, overeat, overweight, shame, thanksgiving, wife, writer, writers, writing

MALL HUSBAND AND THE JEWELRY STORE

November 20, 2023 by David Gillaspie

Mall Husband happens when his wife says she’s going to the mall to finish Christmas shopping. Finish what? Husband thinking, ‘The Cowboys and Panthers coming up after a Duck game stomping at Arizona State yesterday is good karma. My kid has my Cowboy gear.’ Wife: Then I’m stopping by New Seasons to finish Thanksgiving shopping. […]

Filed Under: What's Up Tagged With: armed guard, christmas shopping, cowboys, date, date night, Ducks, fight, football, gun range, highlander, husband, kung fu, mall, mall husband, Michael kors, old lady, sports, thanksgiving shopping, Tigard, watching football, wife, writer, writing

RELATIONSHIP ABERRATION? WHO IS THE ABERRATION, WHO IS ‘NORMAL’

November 18, 2023 by David Gillaspie

The big question in a relationship aberration is who is who? Who is the aberration for the other, who is the norm. So there I was sitting down to a late lunch with my wife talking about aberrations. I started by using a string as an example. String? Stay with me.

Filed Under: What's Up Tagged With: aberrations, American, american wife, Baby Boomer blogger, blog, boomerpdx, dating history, David Gillaspie, first date, history, Love, mansplaining, MARRIAGE, marriages, married life, relationship, relationship aberration, relationship goals, relationships, wife, writer, writing

CAR LOVE, OR LOVE CAR

October 30, 2023 by David Gillaspie

Car love depends on who is in the car. Of course we all love a car we can pack to the rafters and drive down the road. But it’s not about what’s in there, it’s who. After 4100 miles of togetherness I’ve got nominations.

Filed Under: What's Up Tagged With: America, animals, blogger, boomer blogger, car, car love, dependable people, dependable ride, dog, earth, education, family plan, fantasy, geology, history, Love, love car, roadtrip, Tigard, travel, travel plan, trip, wife, writer

THE WESTERN WAY + + +

October 26, 2023 by David Gillaspie

The western way shows a solitary figure on a journey of self-discovery. That was my goal when I started. Just me and the boys and a dog. John, Bill, Stu, and Ruby. I would encase the memory like high-silica ground water does to fallen logs buried in mud. Except my memory would take three weeks, […]

Filed Under: What's Up Tagged With: adult kids, America, anxiety, boomerpdx, discovery, dog, education, family, goal, gun, hand gun, history, MARRIAGE, memory, normal, normal person, North Bend, Oregon, plan, planning, self discovery, the west, Trail Blazer, travel, west, western, western way, wife

SUNRISE ARCHES FOR EARLY VIEWS

October 20, 2023 by David Gillaspie

I asked someone who lives near Arches National Park their advice on what not to miss. After maps and visitors’ centers and miles gone before we sleep, I got an unexpected answer. “The most important thing about this part of the country is the sun. Try and see places like they were seen for ages, […]

Filed Under: What's Up Tagged With: arches, arches national park, bucket list, life partner, lifestyle gurus, partner, personal mantra, sunlight, sunrise, sunrise arches, travel, travel planner, travelers, Utah, wife