The notions of mens shapewear came to me over the AM airwaves. If I’m in the car between 3 PM and 7, I’m listening to 1080 The Fan. Yesterday the talk was about fluffy men tightening up. Did they go on and on about diet and exercise mixed in with more diet and exercise? No. […]
LIVING LARGE? WHAT’S THE SECRET
Living large usually means more than drawing a breath. Most people compare themselves to others for reference. Not me. My large living is no secret:
DAD POWER: YOU DON’T HAVE TO BE SUPER
Dad power comes from men who know the secret of being a dad. It begins in denial. “I’ll never have kids, I’ve got enough problems.” Then curiosity. “I’d be a better dad than anyone I know.” The final straw? “I think my girlfriend would be a great mom.” That’s it. That’s the entire post. But […]
WOMEN STEER LOVE BOAT, THE REST OF US JUST SHOVEL COAL
An unmarried man can have a great idea, work through problems, and it will either fail of succeed in some measure. Work hard enough and things get changed. A married man knows this will never happen. Instead of a great idea to dive into to, the idea becomes a conversation. If […]
TWO MARRIED GUYS MAP DATE LIFE
What else would two married guys do? The beauty of public transportation comes with the people you meet. Two old men waited at a Portland bus stop. Late afternoon drizzle fell on the city through fading light. The sun made little effort to split the clouds over the Willamette River. Man 1: It felt like […]