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MONDAY MORNING STARTER: COMPLAINING?

March 16, 2026 by David Gillaspie

Monday morning, like every morning of the week, starts with a quick look online to see what’s up in there, to see if anything sticks past the first scroll. What stuck? Complaining. My online peeps are disappointed in their engagement numbers. No one reads their posts. And it hurts soooo bad.

Filed Under: What's Up Tagged With: acting, art, baby boomer, complain, complaining, complaint, dancing, drawing, engagement, essays, faceless public, failure, fiction, frustration, monday morning, music, online, online engagement, painting, poetry, pubic, reportage, sculpting, singing, Social media

NEW NUMBERS NEEDED HERE

August 8, 2025 by David Gillaspie

I need new numbers, not that I’m too good for 0-9. A new arrangement would be nice, but it is what it is. As much as I’d like to see better numbers, more improvement, I accept what I see. Upward trend? Okay. Downward trend? Okay. How about moving on instead of complaining about every tick […]

Filed Under: What's Up Tagged With: academy award, Baby Boomers, better numbers, blog, complain, complaining, content, defend yourself, easy reading, failing blog, google, google algorithm, improvement, last resort, literary excellence, marlon brando, millennials, monetized, more improvement, new numbers, Nobel Prize, numbers, optimized, origin story, oscar, over qualified, pushed, reader, reader bait, story, unfairness, unsatisfied, vanity, vanity blog, Weight Loss, whine

BOOMER CONFUSION RIPE FOR HARVEST

April 23, 2025 by David Gillaspie

Boomer confusion is rampant, just ask. If it’s not one thing, it’s another, until it’s everything all of the time. One think I like to remind myself about: Golden eggs do not come from a goose.

Filed Under: What's Up Tagged With: aging, baby boomer, Baby Boomers, blaming, blog, blogger, BOOMER, boomer blogger, boomer confusion, boomers, common ground, complaining, education, history, PORTLAND BABY BOOMERS, whining, writer, writing

OLD YEAR, NEW YEAR, GOODYEAR

December 31, 2024 by David Gillaspie

With the old year out, the new year in, why not plan a road trip on a set of Goodyears? What else sounds better than Goodyear? A new year deserves a slice of goodness to balance what comes next. But that’s still to come.

Filed Under: What's Up Tagged With: balance, Cannon Beach, complaining, depoe bay, goodyear, law and order, law and order SVU, new year, newport, next year, ocean, old year, Oregon Coast, sea, stick around, threat, tsunami, wwi, WWII, year

FALLING LEAVES OF AUTUMN

November 22, 2024 by David Gillaspie

Falling leaves are the rule of the season. The only place without a carpet of leaves is a parking garage. But that’s Oregon, famous for trees.

Filed Under: What's Up Tagged With: beer, complaining, Coos Bay, falling, falling leaves, green, leaves, North Bend, Oregon, trees

COMPLAIN, COMPLAIN, COMPLAIN

June 29, 2024 by David Gillaspie

If a writer isn’t complaining, what are the other options? After a quick look since I came up with nothing, it’s praise. Praising. But we’re not used to praising. That needs to change.

Filed Under: What's Up Tagged With: authentic, authentic writing, be authentic, blog, blogger, common man, complain, complain culture, complain effectively, complaining, complaint, culture, dread, education, family, favoritism, fear, French exit, manchurian candidate, Patrick DeWitt, politician, politics, praise, praise the lord, praising, screaming, stage fright, write, writer, yelling

PLACING BLAME IN THE RIGHT PLACE

May 1, 2024 by David Gillaspie

What’s the best way of placing blame? Pointing a finger? Yelling? Or checking to make sure there’s anyone or anything to blame? What about the blameless among us who’ve never done anything wrong?

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FIXING BLOG THINGS AND COMPLAINING AT THE SAME TIME

December 24, 2022 by David Gillaspie

Fixing blog things is part of joining the blogger world circus. I update boomerpdx and lose my subscribers? Twitter takes a dump and I lose my blog traffic? Facebook is unreliable? These are examples of fixing things online AND complaining. Waaaa. But, first . . .

Filed Under: What's Up Tagged With: acceptable losses, Baby Boomers, blog, blog traffic, blog writer, blogger, blogger world, boomerpdx, boomers, combat fatigue, complaining, English classes, facebook, fixing blog, hippies, Old School, PTSD, reader interface, survivors guilt, twitter, wordpress, writer, writing soul, WWII

CONSTANT COMPLAINING DONE THE RIGHT WAY

December 13, 2022 by David Gillaspie

If you hear constant complaining without end, what do you do? Tune it out? Change the channel? Or listen and learn because we all know it’s impossible to complain all the time. There’s something else going on, but what?

Filed Under: What's Up Tagged With: Army, Ben Affleck, center city, clear communications, Communication, complaining, constant complaining, leadership school, Marine, philadelphia, quiet quitting, tune out

BLOGGER RULES: COMPLAIN, A LOT

November 17, 2022 by David Gillaspie

Blogger rules depend on the personality of the writer, but complaining endlessly is a common thread. I’m not a complainer, so it’s more difficult. Where is the starting line?

Filed Under: What's Up Tagged With: angry, baby boomer, Baby Boomers, blogger, blogger rules, BOOMER, boomerpdx, boomers, cancer, complain, complainer, complaining, engagement, icu, nurses