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CHOOSE HOPE, DO THE RIGHT THING

December 14, 2025 by David Gillaspie

I read a post on social media that ended with ‘Choose Hope.’ So I am. Every time I hear bad news I say it. Things could work out better? Say it to yourself.

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YOUNG OLD VS OLD OLD, THE JOY OF AGING

September 11, 2025 by David Gillaspie

Young Old: Spry, active, ready to show how young. My Grandpa showed off his new knee by doing one legged step ups on a low rock wall, his knee at a right angle, then up. He invited me to give it a try. I was in my forties. It was harder for me than him. […]

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THE WAY YOU DO ANYTHING IS THE WAY YOU DO EVERYTHING

October 17, 2024 by David Gillaspie

Agree or disagree, but the way you do anything explains a lot. If you have an identity crisis do a quick review of the past day to see who you are. What you did yesterday is who you are today. Actions speak louder than words, so what did you do yesterday?

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HARD LOVE DADDY ON A HEALTH KICK

April 16, 2024 by David Gillaspie

I saw hard love work on my Dad after he got his heart fixed. No smoking for the old chimney. The doc said it, the family said it, the friends said it. You’d say it too.

Filed Under: What's Up Tagged With: baby boomer, Baby Boomers, blogger, boomerpdx, caregiving skills, coma, encouragement, family, father, fitness, hard love, health, health kick, ill health, Love, loved one, loved ones, MARRIAGE, medical community, millennials, no smoking, official coma, Oregon, Portland Oregon, smoker, son, story, trend, wife, writers, writing, WWII

NEW BEGINNING? HERE’S WHERE YOU START

April 8, 2024 by David Gillaspie

Most of us have had a new beginning at least once? Does that sound right? “With this high school diploma the world is your oyster,” was a saying. Not, “The world is your clam,” but why quibble. That changed over the years with:

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NEW TRADITIONS FROM OLD: 100 DAYS AND COUNTING

March 21, 2024 by David Gillaspie

New traditions aren’t always new, just new to some. The 100 Day tradition of throwing a party was new to me, but not new. When a new mom’s parents are born in China, there will be a 100 Day celebration. Now I wonder why everyone doesn’t have the same? It points to the differences in […]

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WHALE WATCHING VISION NOT SO CLEAR, BUT

March 18, 2023 by David Gillaspie

This is the whale watching spot from the lighthouse on the east side of Kauai. It’s the exact same spot where my party watched whales. Momma whale jumped up. Baby whale jumped up. Me? I jumped up, too. But too late.

Filed Under: What's Up Tagged With: anini beach, donut truck, Hawaii, kauai, loved ones, natural beauty, power swim, scream, sea turtles, snorkel, sushi, travel, underwater, whale, whale watching, yell

INTERNAL POLLUTION IN A BABY BOOMER WORLD

April 23, 2022 by David Gillaspie

Internal pollution is the filter we see through. It’s our judgement, our favoritism, our prejudice, and bias. What we see runs through our up-bringing, education, life choices, and judgement. Did I mention judgement? Add cataracts to that mess and you’ve got a problem. Cataracts?

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REVENGE: HOW TO GET EVEN WITHOUT FEELING BAD ABOUT IT

November 28, 2021 by David Gillaspie

Getting revenge for the wrong reason is no way to live. Why? Because getting even for the wrong reason sets up the next round. The right reason brings the same result, but it doesn’t matter. For people who see revenge as a way of life it’s business as usual either way. Who are these people?

Filed Under: What's Up Tagged With: getting even, high school, job, living well, loved ones, partner, revenge, role model, scout law

ANGRY MEN: WHAT HAPPENED TO MAKE THEM SO ANGRY

August 26, 2021 by David Gillaspie

Angry men all come from the same source of disillusionment: “This isn’t what I expected and I’m pissed, y’all.” No one respects you? Grrrr. You don’t have a celebrity lifestyle? Feeling hot. Someone told you you’re getting replaced? Grab a torch. But where does this all start? Look at self-esteem.

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CHOOSE HOPE, DO THE RIGHT THING

YOUNG OLD VS OLD OLD, THE JOY OF AGING

THE WAY YOU DO ANYTHING IS THE WAY YOU DO EVERYTHING

HARD LOVE DADDY ON A HEALTH KICK

NEW BEGINNING? HERE’S WHERE YOU START

NEW TRADITIONS FROM OLD: 100 DAYS AND COUNTING

WHALE WATCHING VISION NOT SO CLEAR, BUT

INTERNAL POLLUTION IN A BABY BOOMER WORLD

REVENGE: HOW TO GET EVEN WITHOUT FEELING BAD ABOUT IT

ANGRY MEN: WHAT HAPPENED TO MAKE THEM SO ANGRY

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