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IMPOSTER SYNDROME FOR THE TROPHY WIN

December 17, 2023 by David Gillaspie

Just when you find a new celebrity crush, whether movie star, sports star, or blogger, they come out with imposter syndrome. They are in complete control of their medium, whether film, field, or the page, at least that’s what you think. Then you learn they are normal people with normal anxieties. Who knew the rich […]

Filed Under: What's Up Tagged With: anxieties, blog, blogger, boomerpdx, celebrity crush, David Gillaspie, family, fox news, grand parents, Hemingway, history, imposter syndrome, incel, involuntary celibate, Love, Nike, normal people, parents, pep talk, trophy, wife, writer, writers, writing

HOLIDAY BUNDLE WRAPPED UP TOGETHER

December 14, 2023 by David Gillaspie

What’s the usual holiday bundle? Lights, tree, presents. Add some snow and you’re all done. But then a day like yesterday adds something extra, something unexpected. There I was, sitting in a car dealership while my ride was in the garage. You know the drill?

Filed Under: What's Up Tagged With: America, bad Christmas, best Christmas, blog, blogger, boomerpdx, broadway rose, Christmas, Christmas spirit, comfort zone, David Gillaspie, family, holiday bundle, Love, MARRIAGE, Mom, oregon Christmas, sad Christmas, self help, the New Yorker, Tigard, toyota, wife, writer, writers, writing

FINISHING SCHOOL FOR THE UNFINISHED

December 13, 2023 by David Gillaspie

If you’ve never heard of it, a finishing school is where women become ladies. Ladies? What kind of ladies? Ladies who grew up expecting others to know what they’d learned in finishing school. To that we say, “Good luck.”

Filed Under: What's Up Tagged With: blog, blogger, boomerpdx, charm school, Communication, David Gillaspie, dinner table, finishing school, history, inherit money, Love, make money, manners, MARRIAGE, money, old money, reddit, school loans, soft skills, sports, women, writer, writers, writing

RED FLAG, OR JUST BEING AN ADULT?

December 4, 2023 by David Gillaspie

Who is quick to pull a red flag as often as possible? The same people who whine the loudest when they get flagged. If that’s you, let’s talk about flagmanship, red flagmanship.

Filed Under: What's Up Tagged With: blog, blogger, boomerpdx, David Gillaspie, flagged, friends, husbands, losers, Love, MARRIAGE, millennials, Oregon, Portland, PORTLAND BABY BOOMERS, red flag, red flags, relationships, tap house, tavern, writer, writers, writing

REACHING THANKSGIVING VELOCITY 2023

November 23, 2023 by David Gillaspie

Reaching Thanksgiving starts on Halloween with: If I eat too much candy now I’ll eat less dinner on Thanksgiving. Also: If I gain weight now I’ll drop it by Thanksgiving. What usually happens?

Filed Under: What's Up Tagged With: anticipation, blogger, boomer blogger, boomerpdx, David Gillaspie, Death, family, fitness, focus, gain weight, happy thanksgiving, lose weight, Love, MARRIAGE, Oregon, overeating, Portland Oregon, reaching thanksgiving, rewriting, Social media, thanksgiving, writer, writers, writing

RELATIONSHIP ABERRATION? WHO IS THE ABERRATION, WHO IS ‘NORMAL’

November 18, 2023 by David Gillaspie

The big question in a relationship aberration is who is who? Who is the aberration for the other, who is the norm. So there I was sitting down to a late lunch with my wife talking about aberrations. I started by using a string as an example. String? Stay with me.

Filed Under: What's Up Tagged With: aberrations, American, american wife, Baby Boomer blogger, blog, boomerpdx, dating history, David Gillaspie, first date, history, Love, mansplaining, MARRIAGE, marriages, married life, relationship, relationship aberration, relationship goals, relationships, wife, writer, writing

LIFETIME MISTAKE TO CHANGE?

November 10, 2023 by David Gillaspie

Have you made a lifetime mistake? Better yet, have you done it quietly so no one would notice? Good job. Now, since we’re all getting down the road with less lifetime in front than in back, in theory, you want to change, you want to fix that mistake. Good luck.

Filed Under: What's Up Tagged With: Baby Boomer blogger, Beatles, education, expression, feelings, flow, lifetime mistake, Love, MARRIAGE, memorable, memory, mistake, music, poems, read, readers, reading, shared memory, sing, song, story, story flow, story momentum, writer, writers, writing, writing advice

AUTHORITY BLOGGER? COME ON, MAN

November 7, 2023 by David Gillaspie

Am I an authority blogger because I say so? An Alpha Male on my own recognizance? In ordinary online discourse, yes. So why don’t I make my claim? I mean, shouldn’t I? I’ve got a few thoughts.

Filed Under: What's Up Tagged With: alpha male, America, Authority, authority blogger, Baby Boomer blogger, blog, blogger, boomerpdx, education, family, history, keep writing, Love, online discourse, Oregon, Portland Oregon, writer, writers, writing, writing classes, writing conferences, writing student

CAR LOVE, OR LOVE CAR

October 30, 2023 by David Gillaspie

Car love depends on who is in the car. Of course we all love a car we can pack to the rafters and drive down the road. But it’s not about what’s in there, it’s who. After 4100 miles of togetherness I’ve got nominations.

Filed Under: What's Up Tagged With: America, animals, blogger, boomer blogger, car, car love, dependable people, dependable ride, dog, earth, education, family plan, fantasy, geology, history, Love, love car, roadtrip, Tigard, travel, travel plan, trip, wife, writer

ROMANCE TRAIN CONDUCTOR: TICKETS PLEASE

October 29, 2023 by David Gillaspie

If the romance train has ever stopped at your station, and you got on, these are familiar tracks. However, if it hasn’t stopped, and you can’t tell the difference between the local, the express, or the out of town train, please continue. Have your tickets ready.

Filed Under: What's Up Tagged With: advice, Baby Boomer blogger, baggage, beautiful life, boomer skanks, boomerpdx, boys, career woman, college boomer, gender, girls, happiness, Love, love advice, love train, men, opinion, romance advice, romance train, romances, skanks, tickets please, train, women