page contents Google

TORCH PASSING? WHEN IS THE RIGHT TIME

October 3, 2020 by

When it comes to torch passing, timing is everything. And it’s usually the wrong time. My dad died the day after my last visit.

Filed Under: What's Up Tagged With: , , , , , , , , , , , , ,

SELF CARE, THE RIGHT TOOLS FOR THE JOB

June 23, 2020 by

Self care showed up in more places during the covid lockdown, and even more with reopening unfolding across the country. Most advice serves to create calm in the chaos, instead of just cutting and chopping willy-nilly. A smaller voice says, “Have another beer and see how that works,” but let’s look at psychology today instead.

Filed Under: What's Up Tagged With: , , , , , , , , , , , ,

CANCER MEMORIES: UNEXPECTED MOMENTS OF LOVE AND KINDNESS

January 13, 2020 by

I made a list of cancer memories to use in my memoir. Not all of them made the cut. A book needs the big stuff; these are the smaller cancer memories:

Filed Under: What's Up Tagged With: , , , , , , , , , , ,

ONE MAGIC MOMENT (AFTER ANOTHER)

December 9, 2018 by

    This is now it happens, just like this with no exceptions for race, religion, nationality, gender, orientation, or other sharp distinctions of separation.   How do I know it happens like this for everyone? Because if it didn’t happen like this for you, this is your new memory:   THE DRIFTERS This magic […]

Filed Under: What's Up Tagged With: , , , , ,

Deliverables Packaged For Use, Not Admiration

September 6, 2018 by

    People used to the limelight have an instinct to show their best side.   Movie stars know where the cameras are, where their marks are to stand, and what to say.   Call them a spokespeople delivering emotional content to the emotionally starved.   Emotionally starved? Yes.  

Filed Under: BOOMER BLOGGER Tagged With: , , , , , , , , , , , , , , ,

SHARING EARTH WITH LIVING THINGS, EVEN THE CREEPY ONES

December 31, 2017 by

    “Quick, where’s my camera?” he said. “What?” she said. “Birds.” “Camera? Here it is.” “These birds are huge. Look at that formation.” “What are they?” “Birds. Really big birds. What are they?” “I don’t know.” “You don’t know these birds? Since when would you even admit it?”

Filed Under: Buckle Up Tagged With: , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , ,

Forgiveness Work, Once You Start It Never Ends

September 30, 2017 by

    The hardest part about forgiveness work is knowing where to stop. And when.   If life is spinning out of control and you’re grasping for a line, a branch, a helping hand, forgiveness may not be the first thing on your mind. Hard to forgive anything with the roof crashing down and the […]

Filed Under: Boomer Up Tagged With: , , , , , , , ,

DOES YOUR FAMILY HATE YOU ENOUGH? GET BUSY

April 7, 2017 by

  Family hate means family values 0.  Are you the right gender? Check early pictures to see if you’re wearing the right clothes. If you’re a guy and your baby pictures look like a girl, relax. General Douglas MacArther wore a dress and long hair as a child. It was the fashion, and it didn’t hurt […]

Filed Under: Toughen Up Tagged With: , , , , , , , , , , , ,

WHAT IS THE BABY BOOMER BOND, YOU ASK

April 3, 2017 by

    3 Shortcuts to understanding a baby boomer bond   If some bright-eyed middle aged face pops up in your life, you know what it’s there for. You need to shop smarter, invest better, learn the art of kindness. But you’ve already bought more than you need, are happily invested. People know how kind […]

Filed Under: BOOMER YEARS Tagged With: , , , , , , , , , , ,

SPELLING LOVE RIGHT

May 16, 2016 by

Spelling love is not about the alphabet. If you know your ABC’s, spelling love is easy. And we all know out ABC’s just fine by now. The alphabet isn’t like algebra or anything else in school that made you wonder why you needed it so bad it made the curriculum. Spelling love with an algebraic […]

Filed Under: What's Up Tagged With: , , , , , , , , , ,