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CRYING TIME CAN BE ANY TIME

January 10, 2025 by David Gillaspie

Crying time in my family is . . . complicated. Not one gets called a cry baby, made fun of, or ignored. But there’s a thought that some of us aren’t fans of a good cry. And they’re wrong.

Filed Under: What's Up Tagged With: better world, cry, cry along, cry baby, cry for them, crying problems, crying time, emotions, good cry, happy, hurtful, real life, rebuild, shock, stilfe emotions, tears, two sons, wife

HEALING POWER OF WRITING (feeling better yet?)

January 6, 2025 by David Gillaspie

healing power

Filed Under: What's Up Tagged With: Baby Boomers, boomer blogger, boomerpdx, boomers, critique group, english department, family, healing, healing effect, healing power, history, Love, MARRIAGE, Oregon, oregon work, Portland, portland library, Portland State, power, sitting quietly, wife, WILLAMETTE WRITERS, writer, writers, writing

SOVING PROBLEMS, THEN FINDING MORE

December 28, 2024 by David Gillaspie

Solving problems is a process. One of the first steps, if not ‘the’ first step, is identifying the problem. The important part is not solving every problem at the same time. Pick one. (Not that one.)

Filed Under: What's Up Tagged With: baby boomer, better person, bigger picture, BOOMER, boomer blogger, boomerpdx, boomers, committed relationship, Dad, Death, dying, education, friend line, friends, good friend, granddad, haunted, in-laws, last words, millennials, parents, problem solved, problems, solving problems, the end, value, wife, writer

CHRISTMAS DINNER 2024 IN REVERSE

December 25, 2024 by David Gillaspie

Christmas dinner at the end looks like more work for someone. It’s not a mystery. Besides I like the whole process of getting things cleaned up for the next mess. Maybe it’s about getting older, but it’s fun setting things up.

Filed Under: What's Up Tagged With: beer, brining, champagne, Christmas, Christmas dinner, city of David, cooking, dance, david, dinner, drinking, food, holidays, married, merry christmas, parchment paper, turkey, turkey dance, wife

FINE WHINE FROM CHEKHOV’S DOG

December 22, 2024 by David Gillaspie

“Why are we worn out? “Why do we, who start out so passionate, brave, noble, believing, become totally bankrupt by the age of thirty or thirty-five? “Why is it that one is extinguished by consumption, another puts a bullet in his head, a third seeks oblivion in vodka, cards, a fourth, in order to stifle […]

Filed Under: What's Up Tagged With: ambition, answers, Anton Chekhov, art, artist, artist work, believing, booze, bored, brave, bullets, cheers, depressed, exhausted, family life, Gurov, kids, ladies' man, middle age burnout, noble, passionate, questions, short story, the lady with the dog, tired, wife, Wiki, worn out

HUSTLER MAN FAIL AT DINNER TABLE

December 12, 2024 by David Gillaspie

I watched a hustler man work the magic one night at a dinner table. He was alone, wife out of town, with a few married couples. One woman caught his attention. Hustler: You seem very happy tonight.

Filed Under: What's Up Tagged With: boyfriends, cautious, college, dance, dancing, dinner table, disco, friendly, hustle, hustler, hustler man, learn, Love, married, Portland, regret, regrets, romance, sex, sharp eye, single, wife, young women

MARRIED MAN WALKABOUT

December 7, 2024 by David Gillaspie

Married Man: My wife doesn’t like doing what I like doing so I’m taking a trip. Me: Sounds like fun. MM: Just me and my dog. Me: Even better. How long will you be gone? MM: Two to five years.

Filed Under: What's Up Tagged With: bad day, blog post, Divorce, dog, dog dump, funny, husband, jackass, john steinbeck, late life, life writing, married, married man, married men, relationship, stick around, trouble, walkabout, wanderlust, wife

THE WAY YOU DO ANYTHING IS THE WAY YOU DO EVERYTHING

October 17, 2024 by David Gillaspie

Agree or disagree, but the way you do anything explains a lot. If you have an identity crisis do a quick review of the past day to see who you are. What you did yesterday is who you are today. Actions speak louder than words, so what did you do yesterday?

Filed Under: What's Up Tagged With: big disappointments, blog, blogger, do everything, Holden Caulfield, husband, j.d.salinger, kids, loved ones, married, personal space, review, salinger, the way, wife, writer, writing, writing room, WWII

EMOTIONAL CALLOUSES GROW WITH LIVING LIFE?

October 8, 2024 by David Gillaspie

Emotional callouses are one way of navigating difficult times. The problems start after difficult times pass. Should you rip the callouses off like an old bandaid, or let it ride? Before you decides, review those hards times so you know the possibility of them returning.

Filed Under: What's Up Tagged With: building, callous, difference, difficult times, divorced, emotional, emotional callouses, emotions, failure, freedom, goals, kids, learn, life, living, living life, married, mistakes, priorities, rebuilding, roommate, success, time, vengeance, wife

ERRAND BOY? EMBRACE THE JOB

October 6, 2024 by David Gillaspie

Who’s an errand boy? Who isn’t? That’s how things get done, doing on errands. What else is there, hiring someone to do errands? But there are times it makes sense.

Filed Under: What's Up Tagged With: boots, calmed down, caregiver, cement blocks, construction, enema, errand boy, errand boy proud, errands, family, fitness, hard labor, he-man, home care, hope, hotrod, Mom, pain, pride, professional intervention, property, step dad, weight lifter, wife