starting over Archives • DAVIDPDX

page contents Google

DIFFERENT TIME, DIFFERENT PLACE

May 25, 2025 by David Gillaspie

The past is a different place, different yet familiar. Maybe too familiar? Familiar like you remember it now differently than you used to remember? Here’s how I remember it:

Filed Under: What's Up Tagged With: baby boomer, Balch creek, big city, boomerpdx, bright lights, Coos Bay, different place, different time, education, family, history, jersey girl, memory, northwest portland, Oregon, Pittock Mansion, Portland, Portland Oregon, portland treasure, remember, starting out, starting over

MAKE DECISIONS IN THE PROPER ORDER

May 3, 2025 by David Gillaspie

Make decisions that benefit you. Sounds easy, makes sense, like the first rule of business: Pay yourself. But there’s always more to consider, always an angle to measure, and you’ll need the right tools. What we have here are the right tools for a square deal.

Filed Under: What's Up Tagged With: Baby Boomers, boomers, broken family, college degree, craftsman, decide, decided, design, design elements, education, feelings, hide mistakes, injustice, Love, make decisions, MARRIAGE, mistakes, old world, order, poor decisions, PORTLAND BABY BOOMERS, proper, proper order, starting over, travel, writer, writers, writing

THE RIGHT ONE. WHERE DO THEY HIDE?

April 1, 2024 by David Gillaspie

Men and women share at least one thing in common: They all want to find The Right One. Who to be with, where to live, what kind of job? The easy answers are, the right one, the right place, and right work. The hard part is deciding the order. Start with The Right One.

Filed Under: What's Up Tagged With: army girl, best stories, birth control, breaking up, college dorms, college girl, dating, facebook, fight, girlfriend, living together, married, men and women, MOVING ON, new life, origin story, right one, starting over, still married, stories, story, the right one

LEARNING HOW THINGS WORK? FIRST LEARN WORDS

June 15, 2023 by David Gillaspie

Learning how to do anything takes a special effort when you already know everything. Then you find out what you’ve learned is wrong and your time and energy feels wasted? After that it’s pointing fingers, assigning blame. Or, there’s another way to justify the time and energy to learn how things work. Call it a […]

Filed Under: What's Up Tagged With: accusations, bad luck, breaking up, cursing, family, family life, free money, gambled, girlfriend, learn, learning, learning how, Oregon, parents, Portland, shit talk, shit talked, shit talker, special effort, starting out, starting over, Universal, wife, words

STARTING OVER? HOW MANY TIMES DOES IT TAKE A WRITER

February 17, 2022 by David Gillaspie

Looking back, I’ve been starting over every day with a fresh, clean, screen and filling it up, just like today. But, as much as that feels like a new start, it doesn’t have the travel element. In my twenties starting over meant a road trip from one side of the country to the other. Have […]

Filed Under: What's Up Tagged With: Baby Boomers, Love, philadelphia writer, PORTLAND BABY BOOMERS, real life, road trip, start over, starting over, transplanted Oregonian, travel, writer