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FULL HOUSE WITH A HOUSEFUL

February 24, 2024 by David Gillaspie

A full house comes in a variety of forms. But you knew that. There’s cards, then there’s my houseful last night. How full?

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BEACH TOWN? THERE’S ONLY ONE

January 11, 2024 by David Gillaspie

Beach town is where I grew up. We had beaches all over the place, surrounded by beaches. But it was a bay town, a town on Coos Bay. Just not Coos Bay.

Filed Under: What's Up Tagged With: bastendorff beach, beach, beach town, blog, blogger, BOOMER, boomer blogger, boomerpdx, boomers, Cannon Beach, Coos Bay, David Gillaspie, education, family, fitness, horsefall beach, husband, husbands, MARRIAGE, my town, oregon beach, Oregon Beaches, Portland Oregon, sunset beach, travel, wife, wives, writer, writers, writing

RED FLAG, OR JUST BEING AN ADULT?

December 4, 2023 by David Gillaspie

Who is quick to pull a red flag as often as possible? The same people who whine the loudest when they get flagged. If that’s you, let’s talk about flagmanship, red flagmanship.

Filed Under: What's Up Tagged With: blog, blogger, boomerpdx, David Gillaspie, flagged, friends, husbands, losers, Love, MARRIAGE, millennials, Oregon, Portland, PORTLAND BABY BOOMERS, red flag, red flags, relationships, tap house, tavern, writer, writers, writing

YELLED AT? HOW TO RECOVER

August 10, 2023 by David Gillaspie

Getting yelled at is not an experience for the timid. But how often do we have a choice of who yells what? Never. Especially when it goes off the tracks, off topic. Then it’s not about you, but them. Goes like this:

Filed Under: What's Up Tagged With: abusive, bad fathers, coaches, Communication, Drill Sergeant, husbands, kids, parents, recover, relationship, weak men, yelled at, yelling

MARRIAGE EXPERIMENTS: DUCK FOOTBALL OR PORTLAND TRIP?

October 30, 2022 by David Gillaspie

Marriage experiments are not for the non-scientist. I’m not a scientist, but my wife is. She’s the one who tries new things and keeps an eye out for my response. But that doesn’t make me the experiment. Or does it?

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DIVORCE NEW NORMAL: “WAS IT ANOTHER GUY?”

March 15, 2018 by David Gillaspie

Older people, a goal baby boomers are moving toward at hyper speed, have heard more joy and heartache than anyone else. We’ve got at least ten thousand hours in each encompassing most every possible outcome. At recent bar stop I learned a whole new take on divorce for modern times. It came […]

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BUSY HANDS TELL THIS STORY

October 20, 2016 by David Gillaspie

Hers were busy hands. She was a woman who did more than she took credit for, gave all she had, then made more. Joan needed busy hands. A baker’s daughter, she learned lessons early; how to mix and cook and clean up afterwards was in her DNA. Memories shot through a hospital room in a […]

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