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LOVE LIFE WITH NO LOVE IN SIGHT?

A love life for rising generations comes with so many choices. And questions. With so many alternatives, some guys just give up. Then what?

STRONG WOMEN HELP LIFT EVERYTHING

Strong women get that way on purpose. They’ve seen problems that needed solving, and did the work. It’s the sort of work not suited for weaklings. Or men. Any men.

HURT FEELINGS FOR HALF THE COUNTRY?

My hurt feelings have an outlet, and I’m so glad. So is everyone else, which is a clue on how do deal with disappointment. Find an outlet so you won’t be haunted the rest of your life by the importance you place in other people’s opinions. Of you. Someone’s feelings about you could hurt yours? […]

VICTIM MAN TELLS WOMEN ALL ABOUT IT

Who is victim man? You? Me? The guy down the street? It’s all of the above, but only one person gets the trophy: The man who cries and moans the loudest and most often.

TIME TRAVEL WITH BULLIES BEING BULLIES

Time travel with me back fifty years. Here’s why: Fifty years ago I was a seventeen year old student following the stream from Miss Spooner’s kindergarten classes at Roosevelt to graduating on the football field where my sports heroes played. It was a good run.

COMMUNICATION SKILLS: MEN TRYING TO HEAR WOMEN

Communication skills are complicated to say the least. If I had one wish, I’d wish men listened to women better than they do. Though you can never know how you’re interpreted, why not try harder? What do women want? Let’s start there:

VASECTOMY REVIEW FOR WOMEN

A vasectomy review is a fine answer to the question of birth control. This is a post for women who need a link to send to men. Who would like to start the review? Anyone? Okay, I’ll start.

LIVE THEATER WORKS TO EXPLAIN CURRENT EVENTS

Live theater? Please. I’ve got a jacked up bill with Ziply Fiber, an AppleTV account, and the most important: Three channels of C-SPAN, the kings of slow TV, which is just my speed. Why would I leave the room with the big screen? Ever? For live theater, I leave for live theater. Don’t you?

RELATIONSHIP AWARENESS: KNOW WHO YOU’RE TALKING TO

‘Relationship awareness’ sounds like a warning? Like a highway sign that says, “BUMPS?” If it doesn’t sound like a warning, maybe you’re not paying attention. Now is a good time to start, but start the right way.

OBSERVATIONAL RESEARCH: HOW ARE THINGS LOOKING IN TEXAS

From the sound of the words alone, ‘observational research’ sounds sketchy. ‘Observational’ asks who is doing the observing. If it’s Bob Tom in Texas observing the landscape, a landscape of livestock, who decides his cows are ‘host bodies’ for more cows to increase his herd, he’s being a good rancher. But if it’s Bob Tom […]