page contents Google

SHARE THE BURDEN, NOT ADD TO IT

July 1, 2016 by

Relationship talk turns into Share The Burden talk. Marriage works if you work at it. Baby boomer marriages get plenty of work. It’s built into the ceremony. To have and to hold, in sickness and health, and talk everything into the ground until it’s covered with dirt then pick it up and shake it out […]

Filed Under: BOOMER YEARS Tagged With: , , , , , , ,

ON WRITING WELL, pt. 1

November 16, 2015 by

One idea is to write a lot, just not about writing well. As a youth I enjoyed reading about writers and their lives. Their work? Not so much. Writers’ biographies were more interesting than anything they wrote at the time. With the idea that living like a writer would make a better writer, those biographies […]

Filed Under: BOOMER BLOGGER Tagged With: , , , , , , , ,

MARRIAGE COUNSELING MATTERS

November 13, 2015 by

Who can explain a thirty year marriage. One woman? One man? Thirty years? And no one talks about it. No one wants to talk about it when Time Magazine asks if monogamy is dead. That’s part or the deal, or at least part of what I understood when I took the vow. Took the vow. […]

Filed Under: Boomer Up Tagged With: , , , , , , , , , , , ,

THAT PORTLAND?

September 19, 2015 by

What You Won’t See Won’t Bother You. The truth is you need Portland and Portland needs you. When you move here, take a good look in the mirror. You are the ‘new blood.’ You will ‘make a difference.’ You will ‘change things’ by your presence. Soon enough you notice other new people making a difference […]

Filed Under: Boomer Up Tagged With: , , , , , ,

3 REASONS FOR MAKE-UP SEX

August 13, 2015 by

Save Your Committed Couple Relationship With Make-Up Sex. Disagreements? It happens to both sides, married or not, straight or not. How does this happen? A man and a woman in a car look for a street sign: “Didn’t you see the sign? You drove right past.” “I didn’t see it. I’ll turn around.” “You drove […]

Filed Under: Boomer Up Tagged With: , , , , ,