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BIG DISAPPOINTMENTS, BECAUSE THERE’S MORE THAN ONE

October 16, 2024 by David Gillaspie

My big disappointments are what come up first in a life review. “Dang, that could have worked out better.” Following that track doesn’t lead to a very good review. This post will explain how to work it out better for both baby boomers and the new biggest generation of Millennials. Go big, or go home, […]

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SPENDING TIME THE RIGHT WAY

September 8, 2024 by David Gillaspie

Are you spending time the way you’d like? Time is funny like that, so I made an equation of happiness. If you’re good with things 51% of the time, not so good 49% of the time, you’re on the right track. Unless you’re a parent.

Filed Under: What's Up Tagged With: alone time, big bills, big houses, big jobs, boring parent, boring parents, commitment, down size, empty next, friends, good parent, Grandparents, grandparents day, happiness, kids, married couple, married couples, parenting, party time, satisfaction, spending time, sports mom, well being

LONG RELATIONSHIPS? I’M A FAN

August 27, 2024 by David Gillaspie

Long relationships that have stood the test of time amaze me. Call me befuddled, bemused, bewildered. How can anyone do it, let alone me? The first thing is finding anyone able to put up with your crap. It’s works even better when they don’t consider your crap to be crap. Take my wife, please.

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QUIET WORK OF AN ENGLISH DAY

June 2, 2024 by David Gillaspie

Quiet work is the sound of silence. It’s the sound of fingers on a keyboard, pages turning. Not so much with guitar practice and a dog. But those get palm muted.

Filed Under: What's Up Tagged With: England, English day, friends, loud, loud people, memorial, people who need people, quiet, quiet work, Silence, work

GUITAR PLAYERS OF THE PAST

April 30, 2024 by David Gillaspie

My guitar friends say guitar players are the same from every era. Unlike current critics of the NBA who say past greats played against milkmen and plumbers and wouldn’t survive in today’s game, musicians from the past are just a request away. Or a documentary. I recently saw The Wrecking Crew.

Filed Under: What's Up Tagged With: babies, blog, blogger, blues, boomerpdx, brooklyn, classical guitar, documentary, fender, fender strat, friends, grand babies, GUITAR, guitar friends, guitar players, husband, lucky blog, married man, music, musicians, played guitar, Stratocaster, wife

PROBLEM SOLVER OR TROUBLE MAKER

February 20, 2024 by David Gillaspie

There are two people you meet over and over, the problem solver and the trouble maker. There’s a thin line between the two. Why? Sometimes it’s the same person. Then you end up with twice the problems.

Filed Under: What's Up Tagged With: blog, blogger, boyfriend, education, friends, funny questions, girlfriend, literary, Love, MARRIAGE, Mr. Right, Nurturing, nururing strategy, problem solver, problem solving, sports, standup, story, story telling, trouble maker, wife, writer, writers, writing

RED FLAG, OR JUST BEING AN ADULT?

December 4, 2023 by David Gillaspie

Who is quick to pull a red flag as often as possible? The same people who whine the loudest when they get flagged. If that’s you, let’s talk about flagmanship, red flagmanship.

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CHANGING SEASONS = CHANGING CLIMATE?

September 21, 2023 by David Gillaspie

Changing seasons were more of a mystery when human intelligence gathered and agreed that the sun and stars all moved around the earth. Back then we were the center of the universe. Man, those were the good old days. Or were they?

Filed Under: What's Up Tagged With: Baby Boomers, bad science, blogger, boomerpdx, boomers, changing climate, changing seasons, clean air, clean water, earth, friends, millennials, modern science, old hippies, trustworthy blogger

WORKING KITCHEN HARD AT WORK

September 13, 2023 by David Gillaspie

A Working Kitchen comes in two versions in my experience: One: A place to make food. Two: A place to show off cooking gear. Who’s hungry?

Filed Under: What's Up Tagged With: canning, canning peaches, cook, cooking, cooking gear, food, friends, fruit, gifts, holidays, kitchen, make food, preserves, sunshine, wife, wine, work, working, working kitchen

REINVENTING FRIENDSHIP: MIDLIFE GUYS

July 24, 2023 by David Gillaspie

Try reinventing friendship when your main guys move away. It happens, and it will happen more than once. You might move away, they might move away, then what? How do you break in new friends?

Filed Under: What's Up Tagged With: Baby Boomers, blogger, boomerpdx, boomers, contemporary blogger, friends, friendship, guitars, male bonding, male friendship, midlife, musician, new friends, reinventing friendship, Social media