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BLOG TRAFFIC: BOOMERPDX FROM NATION TO NATION

Blog traffic map via google analytics. The big difference between the top map and every other map of the world is that this one tracks where the hits, the readers, the bots, showing up on boomerpdx originate. It’s a blog traffic map, which isn’t very writerly since geography isn’t about plot, story structure, or how […]

MAKING PLANS, NOWHERE PLANS FOR NOBODY

Making plans in December has been an American tradition unlike any other. Everyone shows up year after year, just like last year, just like next year. Making plans in normal times was easy until a status change shifts everything forever. After that no one makes plans thinking they’ll stick.

INHERITED TALENT AND WHAT TO DO WITH IT

Inherited talent comes with that one big question: what to do? This is part of the Nature vs Nurture debate. If you’re born with the ability to do something well, how can you do it better? And who recognizes inherited talent besides helicopter parents?

SUFFERING ADDICTION NEEDS BAD NEWS FIX, STAT

What the heck is a suffering addiction? A quick search turned up an answer: Suffering and struggle are emotional addictions as strong as addictions to alcohol, nicotine and drugs. So if you notice a pattern in your life of struggle and suffering from one issue to another with little respite in between — I’ve got news for […]

UNIVERSAL FEAR OF MASK WEARING IS A WEAPON. OH YEAH?

Universal fear is what the other guy feels when they face the same things as the rest of us. Like wearing a mask. Over here in America, see, we have rights. We have choices here in the land of the free, home of the brave. One choice is to embrace universal fear and hold it […]

COVID19 DEATHS NOT THE NORM TO ENDURE

Covid19 deaths will never be normal for anyone who has been with loved ones in their final moments. My mother-in-law had a massive stroke the doctors called an unsurvivable brain bleed. It even sounds bad. For two days she responded to conversation with closed eyes and a hand squeeze for yes or no. Her last […]

STRESSED FEELINGS OF PEOPLE, ANXIOUS PEOPLE

Stressed feelings are an overload signal, like a surge protector. If your life is a barrel, it carries everything important inside. We add and subtract, move things around. Now and then it overflows. It’s not a ‘disturbance in the force,’ overflow, not at first. But it is messy. Now what? You need to ask?

LOVE SOMEONE LIKE IT MEANS SOMETHING

“Love someone, anyone, just not them.” How many times have you heard that? Never? Me neither, but it feels like that’s the rule. As long as we love someone, anyone, we can all rest easier. But, what if . . . ?

JOE COOL LOOSES HIS MOJO AFTER DISAPPOINTMENTS

Joe Cool never says good-bye because he knows he’s not going anywhere. You may not see him in person, but he takes up head space; at least that’s his vision. He knows you want him, whether you know it or not. That’s the magic of Joe Cool. He knows. How long before he ages out?

PROBLEM SOLVERS: WHAT HAPPENS WITHOUT PROBLEMS?

Problem solvers without a problem eventually become a problem. If they could keep it to themselves, they wouldn’t be a problem, but when does that happen? For example, the self-described ‘people person’ who turns into a nasty troll when people disagree with them. We’ve all got ninety-nine problems lined up in prioritized, triaged, next-one-up order, […]